What to Do if You Are Sick of Your Date?

Indeed, men are real jerks in terms of relationships and transgender dating life. They were perfectly capable of pretending how gentlemanly they were, but then they screwed things up. I'm sorry to admit that if you've had several unpleasant kinky dating experiences with men, but the problem may be with you. Now, I'm not saying it's your fault, because some people are real bastards. But in a way, it's your fault that you don't protect your heart and establish some basic rules to keep you away from toxic people and manipulators. So if you're really tired of being messed up by men, you should follow these tips. In this way, you can have a healthy, benign trans hookup relationship with your partner.

1. Always put yourself first

Remember, you are the master of your life. Trans dating is not the whole of your life. You should be responsible for your own happiness. Remember, if you don't fight for yourself, no one else will fight for you. Anyway, always put yourself first! Don't wait for him to start treating you the way you deserve it. On the contrary, always treat yourself as kindly as you can. This will let him know that you won't tolerate him treating you differently. If you put yourself first, your heart will be protected, because it will not be so easy to occupy your heart.

2. Don't let him enter your world so easily.

The first mistake many women make is to make it easy for men to enter their world. Men live for challenges and fight for women they like is their nature. You can guess what happens when you give yourself and your heart to a man easily. Exactly! He took it for granted. He never puts you in the first place because he knows he doesn't have to work so hard to win you, which, to some extent, will make you a low standard girl. Don't be that girl. Always keep your mind and standards as high as possible, because someday you will thank yourself for it.

3. Live in the moment

You may be confused by this, but there is a perfect reason to remind you to live in the present. Many women begin to fantasize about their partner's future soon after they begin to fall in love. Believe me, we women are so good at it that we can imagine ourselves married, with three children, and one on the way, living in a perfect house with flowers - all in three seconds. I don't think it's even necessary to mention what's going to happen when you realize that your man doesn't have the imagination at all. Don't think too much! Live in the present, seize every day, and then live it again and again. Looking forward to the future indeed can bring you some pleasant feelings but it will make you lose yourself and be bling to the current lives. Thus, just live in the moments.